I’m the kind of person who would describe myself as a very reclusive person. I can be your friend in school, talk to you on end for hours, but that’s something limited to only school period.
When I’m at home, I guess the best thing to describe me is: Fulfilling social obligations has seldom been high on my agenda.
I’m not the kind of person who will willingly organize outings, not the kind who will constantly contact you. In fact, if my friends didn’t ask me out, I probably would not even go out with them at all.
Yea, you might say, you’ll lose a billion, if not all, of your friends in time to come. Friendship needs to be nurtured, needs to be something you work at. But then seriously, I don’t care two hoots.
It’s not that friendship isn’t important to me. On the contrary, I treat my friends like gold and they treat me like shit.
But I just don’t get the point of constant contact. Like talking on the phone every single day, or making it a requirement to meet every single week.
To me, I meet you once a month, once every two months, and we talk like there’s no tomorrow. That’s the kind of friendship I’m seeking. And unfortunately, I’ve not had many people who understand what kind of a person I am. Hope you will have the pleasure of sharing and reading at this site.